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[technoir]

I recently watched lost in the translation. This was a really good movie first off. Bill Murray may be my hero. But it led me to review the classic question of can you be a close friend with someone you are attracted to and not have it f*ck things up. My experience is yes, but I would be interested what others think.

TechNoir

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[deorthewanderer.livejournal.com]

Hey this is T btw. I would say that it depends on the person. As long as your friendship is strong enough that you put their needs and desires before your own it can work. That doesn't mean it doesn't hurt sometimes, and not everyone is strong enough to make that sacrifice. But I would say you are.

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[technoir.livejournal.com]

Well i have gotten to the point I dont see it as a sacrifice. Attraction add's some interesting things to a friendship and flirtation to me is a fun game. The only I ever have is it makes it harder for me some times to try and transition to something more than friendship. But overall it isn't a problem so long as you are at least a little mature.